We often hear that a girl should be married soon. If she marries soon, she will have better future and she will have kids when her physical self is co-operating with her and she could mold herself nicely if she gets married.
We also hear that we should get married when we are ready and when we ourselves feel accomplished or we think we have achieved enough success that now we need to share it with our someone special.
To get married is a big decision. It comprises of 2 families where one gives daughter and one takes, 2 people getting attached physically, mentally and emotionally and spending life together. This all happens with a choice. It is not necessary that every person makes the same choice because priorities and responsibilities differ.
In our country where a lady is forced to leave her house, Is it okay to leave old parents alone? Is it okay to run away from responsibilities of a daughter; Is it okay to be depended on husband’s money for survival? What if a girl wants to visit her parents often to take care of unhealthy parents?
Well, then the solution to it is, get married at the age when you are capable enough to pay for maids who could take care of your parents like you do. A girl should get married when she thinks she is physically ready to conceive a child and raise him/her properly. A girl should get married when she thinks she can make her own money whenever and wherever she wants but most of all a girl should get married when it is her choice to get married because getting married is neither a force nor a sacrifice, but it is a CHOICE.
Be courageous enough to make your own choices…
Author : Kalgee Shah