This international women’s day, we want to do something special for all the beautiful and strong ladies out there. We want all the men to take a pledge to #sitandtalk to the special lady/ies of your life. You will get to learn something new about them every time you ask them about them. Because all a lady will ever ask to you would be your time, undivided attention, encouragement and support.
Mr. Soul has written what a woman wants, what she deserves and what is her right to ask for in his book #Reflectionsofaman. Though not in a story from, it is beautifully described, what a woman should expect from herself as well as from others.
There is nothing written in the book which haven’t been told already or discussed already but this book is compilation of all of them.
It is divided into 4 sections:
First section is for women. This is the section where he has described what exactly a woman is and how her man should treat her. A woman is someone who is beautiful yet sassy, fragile yet strong, confident yet nervous and role model as well as an idol.
It is a woman who gives a person a chance to treat her the way she likes. It totally depends on her how everyone treats her. It is not only necessary to respect woman but to protect her as well. It is not only necessary to give her attention but include her in your decisions as well.
It is often said that whatever you give to a lady, she returns twice the amount because she is how you are in return.
Second section is for man. It is for all the men out there who have eyes for more than one lady. Mr. Souls says that if a man has eyes for his lady, no one dares to take her away nor will she ever want to leave.
A good woman does not require money, diamonds, mansion or cars; she just wants attention, respect and loyalty from one man – his man.
If a man effortlessly woos her lady every day, bringing creativity to relationship, no other man would dare to disrespect her.
Third section is for both. This is the section where Mr. Soul describes how a woman plays role in relationships, which totally depends on how man treats her and how he treats their relationship.
He says both have to equally adjust, respect, support and help each other to become better person than they already are.
It always takes two to tango, but to keep a good woman by your side is an art.
No woman is bad from the start, it’s because she had bad experiences; she turned out sour. If one tries harder, he can break a wall and enter inside her heart.
Fourth section is his personal experiences. The fourth section of this book is quite interesting. It is in the form of poetry, where it seems like writer has penned down his personal experiences based on his life.
All you need to do is focus on little things instead of bigger things. To open a car door, pull a chair, hold her hand while walking, show her you are proud to have her in your life. She tries hard every day to fulfill your dreams and wishes, so out of 365 days, take out one day to know and fulfill hers.
Article by Kalgee Shah